Sunday, January 15, 2012

People will hurt you

"People can be cruel, and they will be. People can hurt you, break your heart and they will. But only you can let them KEEP hurting you."

The saying goes, if a snake bites you once, it may be the snakes' fault, but usually when the snake bites you a second time, it is your fault. When we are in the vicinity of something that is potentially harmful, like a relationship with a dishonest person, or a person who has no qualms with hurting us to get what they want, and they eventually do, it may not be our fault the first time that they do so, even if the warning signs were there.

It is only after these people hurt us and only when we choose to allow them into our lives to hurt us again, is it our fault that we get hurt again. As this passage says, people can be cruel, and they will be. This is not to say, that everyone will hurt you over and over again, and that no one deserves a second chance, but those who are chosen by you to receive a second chance, should be chosen wisely, and only with your heart's discretion.

"Stop going back to the one who brings you more pain than happiness. It's not worth it to continue to invest your feelings into somebody unworthy of your love. Everybody deserves second chances, but not for the same mistakes."
Friday, January 13, 2012

Having the courage to talk to someone

"Sometimes, the people you think don't want to talk to you are the ones waiting for you to talk to them."
Having the courage to talk to someone who you may be scared to talk to may open up doors that you never imagined would be open for you, sometimes we must be willing to take risks like talking to someone that we never knew would talk to us, and in turn we may find out that they have been the ones that have been waiting to talk to you. Life requires us at times to be more aggressive than we would normally like to be. 

Instead of running from life, and the uncomfortable situations that we may expose ourselves to, it is important that we make our self comfortable in being in uncomfortable situations, and that we utilize the ability to take risks in our lives, because it is these types of situations that allow us to grow exponentially. We must be willing to talk to the people who we don't think will talk to us, and choose to go after experiences that we are uncertain about as well.

When someone has a crush on you, it can make you feel excited and nervous if you also feel the same way about the person. Unfortunately you won't always feel the same about everyone who has a crush on you, so sometimes it can be awkward. Regardless of whether you feel the same way about a person who has feelings for you, it is important to address the situation by talking to him/her about it.
Thursday, January 12, 2012

Wasting time thinking about someone

"Sometimes we waste too much time to think about someone that doesn't think about us for a second."

Wasting one's time is one of the biggest wrongs that can be committed against one's self. Time is our most valuable resource because it is something that once past, can never be acquired again. In order to make the best use of our time it is crucial that we use it doing the things within our heart that we love, with the people we love and who love us in return. 

When somebody isn't willing to devote their self to you, like you are willing to devote yourself to them, having a relationship with this person will more than likely lead to devastation for the person who cares most. This isn't always something that is possible to avoid but can more easily be determined even though sometimes it may be after we acquire feelings for a person. In order to be the best you, you must be willing to let go of people who have no interest in helping transform you into the best you, don't waste your time on those that don't.

God opens millions of flowers
without forcing the buds. it
reminds us not to force anything
for things happen in the right time
Wednesday, January 11, 2012

My second home: Sarawak

My posting result already came out and giving my heartbeats became fast. Fast and furious. Enter Identity Card Number. The result shows everything. Sarawak will be my next destination of life. My life as a teacher will be start there. God Bless. I was sad because maybe I will alone in stranger places. Then, all friends post their posting. I'm glad that my friends also went to Sarawak. Most of us. 2 of my friends got Sabah and 1 for Selangor. Not bad either. The more the merrier.

This post should be written in 9th of January. So many things that I need to do and consider. This is my journey. Journey as a teacher. I hope that I can serve very well. Sarawak be good to me. I'm just a novice teacher.

Unfortunately, JPN still pending in giving a school's name and district. Can't book air ticket. Just enjoy my life there. Sarawak, here I come.
Sunday, January 08, 2012

My heart

One day an 11 year old girl asked her daddy,

"What are you going to get me for my 15th birthday?"

The father replied, "There is much time left."

When the girl was 14 she fainted and was rushed to the hospital.

The doctor came out and told her dad she had a bad heart& she is probably gonna die

When she was lying in the hospital bed she said

"Daddy,. have they told you I am going to die?"

The father replied no you will live as he left weeping.

She said "How can you be sure."

He turned around from the door and said "I know."

She turns 15 when she is recovering and comes home to find a letter on her bed. It says;

"My Dearest Daughter, if you are reading this it means all went well as I told you. One day you asked me what I was giving you for your 15th birthday, I didn't know then but now my present to you is a MY HEART."

Her father donated his heart.

P/S: Now only love like that can make a father end his life to save his daughter. I'm envious and touched by the story. Although it's just a short story, it makes we cry a lot and think deeply. Can't imagine that will happen to us. We still don't want lose someone that we love, especially our parents.
Saturday, January 07, 2012

I won't give up

When I look into your eyes
It's like watching the night sky
Or a beautiful sunrise
There's so much they hold
And just like them old stars
I see that you've come so far
To be right where you are
How old is your soul?

I won't give up on us
Even if the skies get rough
I'm giving you all my love
I'm still looking up

And when you're needing your space
To do some navigating
I'll be here patiently waiting
To see what you find

'Cause even the stars they burn
Some even fall to the earth
We got a lot to learn
God knows we're worth it
No I won't give up

I don't wanna be someone who walks away so easily
I'm here to stay and make the difference that I can make
Our differences they do a lot to teach us how to use
The tools, the gifts we've got yeah we got a lot at stake
And in the end, you're still my friend at least we didn't tend
For us to work we didn't break, we didn't burn
We had to learn how to bend without the world caving in
I had to learn what I got, and what I'm not
And who I am

I won't give up on us
Even if the skies get rough
I'm giving you all my love
I'm still looking up

So easy is our life
What's mine is yours and yours mine
Hardly do we ever fight
We'd rather be kind

I won't give up on us
Even if the skies get dark
I'm healing this broken heart
And I know I'm worth it

I won't give up on us
God knows I'm tough enough
We got a lot to learn
God knows we're worth it

No I won't give up on us
God knows I've had enough
We got a lot to learn
And we're, and we're worth it

No I won't give up
No I won't give up

By: Jason Mraz

Such a heart felt song. Sounds like they are in different places in their hearts. Go listen to this one, just breaks my heart. Hope I can work it out in real life. So, I won't give up that easily until I try my best. That's all.

"Not Turning Back. I have made a commitment, so Time to Take the Risk and Get Things done!"

Fighting in relationships

"You can't have a relationship without any fights, but you can make your relationship worth the fight."

No matter what the movies, and the fairy tale stories we hear about love say, there isn't always a happily ever after, and VERY rarely do relationships carry forward without any tests or fights along the way. The simple option for most couples enduring hardships between both participants is to either let an argument break them, or let the argument make them a more secure couple that grows from disagreements and turmoil. 

Couples are forced to choose whether they realize it or not, if their relationship is worth the fight. An important key to remember for those who are thinking of breaking up is that no matter what or who you are with, there will probably be fights, but if you can never seem to get past the fights of the past, it may not be worth taking the relationship you have into the future. Only you know what is in your heart, and only you truly know what your heart is able to take, so make sure whatever you choose is worth it.
Friday, January 06, 2012

The shadow of the past holds the future hostage

"The shadow of the past holds the future hostage."

The shadow of the past will hold the future hostage only if you let it. The wonderful thing about life is that we all have a chance in every single second of it to change our future. Think about it, with every breath we take, with every thought we think, and with every word we utter, we have the chance to become someone who we never presented ourselves as before. 

To a certain extent the past might always have at least a portion of the future hostage, but truthfully if we are willing to transform our lives and use the past as a stepping-stone for our future endeavors the shadow that our pasts will cast on our future will barely be visible. We must never forget where we came from, but we must also never forget that as long as we believe, there is always hope for a brighter future.
Wednesday, January 04, 2012

Someone taking your love for granted

"Dear friend, you are not a boomerang; therefore once he throws you away you shouldn't come back. Don't take a u-turn. You are a Frisbee. Once he/she throws you away, you stay and wait for someone special to pick you up. Stay on the one-way road. Love, someone who cares."

When someone is willing to throw your love away without a care in the world, and then promptly tries to assume the relationship that they had with you like nothing ever happened, something is wrong, and chances are it would be a bad idea in accepting them as a relationship partner again. As this passage states, no one should be treated as a boomerang that can be tossed away and accepted back into someone's hands when they feel as though they are ready. 

We are all actually quite special, and if someone doesn't recognize that losing you could be one of the worst mistakes that they could ever make in their lives then they probably don't deserve a second chance. Only you and your heart can determine what is best for you, and who and what to allow in and out of your life, but always try to remember that if a person wants to be in a relationship with you, they must handily recognize your beautiful uniqueness, and should never take your love for granted.

Sometimes I take this kind of love for granted. I forget what a blessing and a gift it is. Other times I nearly reject this love because I doubt the sincerity of its source or realize how undeserving I am. Why would someone see all these faults, all these mistakes, all these cumbersome traits … and love me anyway?
Tuesday, January 03, 2012

Stop worrying and start living

We are always getting ready to live, but never living. Get living. 

In order to "get living" we must make the choice to stop making excuses, to stop worrying about the resources that we don't have, to stop worrying about the things that may hold us back including what we lack, and to start the journey that we desire to complete. Not everything will always be in the order in which we want before we go for our dreams, and the sooner we start is usually the sooner that we will get to a goal or a dream in which we believe in. 

Committing to living instead of "getting ready to live" is an important value in life that we all must develop in order to become successful. Not everything will always be perfect, and life will always present challenges to you that you must overcome in order to feel as though you are successful. What are you waiting on to start? Embark on your journey now, and get living!

Don't worry
Be happy

Monday, January 02, 2012

Let's promise that we'll never ever commit suicide

There are more ways than ever to find out how much life is worth living, each time you feel so lonely, so depressed and then you start believing that you don't belong here anymore, just look around you and make up your mind for a while.

Halfway around the world, I'm sure, positive, that there's someone holding more pain in his heart than I hold in mine, & he suffers much more than I do.

My lungs! They're still full of air! Even the air is encouraging me & saying that I'm still alive, fine & healthy, it will never give up on me, it's just waiting for me to get over this!!

Let's make the memory do its job, let it remind you the happy moments that you have ever experienced, I’m pretty sure they're endless!! So don't let this horrible thing that happened to you deprive you of enjoying more happy moments, because you do deserve more!!

Look at your friends & the ones who love you, think how horrible they would feel when they know you committed that awful crime, & they would even feel guilty & say: If I had shown him how much I loved him he would never think about killing himself.

Look at you!! You’re courageous enough to get yourself killed and say goodbye to nice things in life, as the moon, the stars, the sky, food, music, people… How could a living person with a beating heart between his lungs get separated from these things? That needs a high degree of bravery, so how couldn't you have the courage to face your problems and try to solve them?

& Remember, mate, God is the one who gave you life, so he would be so angry with you if you take his right of taking lives back, so be certain that whatever you're running from in your life is better, because where ever you're going to won't be a better place!!

Please, when you feel that it is the end of the world for you, just go & sit in a corner of your room & spend a few hours weeping. Cry body & drop some tears, it's okay, & you'll feel relieved later trust me, because I know, that inside you there’s still a thin ray of light, it's called hope, friend, hope...

Don't you ever say: "I'm tough I don't cry", that's absolutely wrong, well, obviously trying to make an end to your life in order to run from some troubles you're not capable of solving doesn't show any toughness!!

We keep our promises, people, so I promise & I give my word that I would never ever kill myself, because I have faith in god's mercy,& this faith gives me strength to believe that he won't let me down...
Sunday, January 01, 2012

These lines are hard to understand

This quotes can be interpret as:

  1. ‎If you lose someone and the person comes back in your life, that person has changed in personality and so on.
  2. If you succeed in something it is not so wonderful if u do not have a loved one to share it with.
  3. If you fail then it could also be a great experience if u have a loved one to help u get through it all!

True, true and very much true. After losing a person had we got the same person back again. Then 'that' person wouldn't have been special. Truth unexplored till date. What that suppose to be? I don't know. Really these lines are very difficult to be accept, but genuinely its a bitterly truth. I mean it's realistic.

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